Hey everyone,
I've been quite busy and I sorta kinda neglected my blog. But for good reason. I've been transitioning into film. I made a short film in December of 2013, titled Grandma's Hands. It was accepted into the River City Film festival. Woohoo! Wish me luck in winning.
Just recently, I finished my first comedy web series called Unplanned Motherhood. We officially wrapped this past Monday. It's a six episode web series, it's for the perfectly imperfect parents in the world. It stars myself, as Layla, a wife and mother of five that gives professional parenting advice on her real life mommy blog. Her unique parenting style contradicts the perfect parenting advice she gives on her blog, which lends to a distinct brand of humor. With each episode, Layla tries to teach her kids important life lessons, only to discover more about herself and her parenting advice.
What is truly unique about this web series is Layla has a real life blog where she will actually give parenting advice. And after most of her posts, the readers get to see an episode of the web series where her real/fake life is shown. As we all do sometimes in life, we can give others the perfect advice, but it can be quite difficult to take our own advice. So for the perfectly imperfect, this web series is for you.
Stay tune to see it's debut on March 28, 2013 on my Youtube channel. Layla's blog goes up on March 25th. To stay informed, go to my Facebook fan page. Or to the Unplanned Motherhood Fan page.
I hope you'll watch. Wish us luck!
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Monday, March 26, 2012
Answers to FAQ for Bloggers
Like many bloggers I'm often asked many questions when approached by other bloggers that are just getting started or that may have a very small following. So I've decided to cover six of the most common questions I'm asked by other bloggers. If you have some of your own questions, leave them in the comment section and I'll will try to answer them on the next round of FAQ's.
How do you keep your readers interested in what you write?
I don't know if I can answer this thoroughly, it's probably best suited as a question to my readers. But I would like to think it's a combination of being informative, personable and sorta funny on a good day. :-)
My advice to bloggers...be interesting. Be odd if necessary. But don't be mediocre. Offer your readers something. That something can be updates on current trends, news or reviews. It can be giveaways, contests or information about giveaways or contests on other blogs or websites. It can be funny joke to brighten their day, a picture that puts a smile on their face or even a rant about current trends or something that ticked you off that we can relate to on a daily basis.
How long should my blog post be?
However long it needs to be. But shorter is better every time. Readers come in a combination of skimmers, voyeurs and hungry word consumers. I'm a combination reader. I look around like a peeping tom and then I skim til I find something interesting and then I read the complete post if it keeps my attention. So the shorter the better. But whatever the length make every word count, so I would say one to two paragraphs. And don't forget to add some photos. Readers love visuals. We want to know how the photo relates to the post. It also helps readers decide if the post is something we are interested in reading in the first place. Think of it as a book cover.
Can you tell me where to go to get free photos for my blog posts?
Use your camera. Try Getty Images for royalty free photos, Picnik (Picnik will be free until April 19th. After April it will be taken over by Google Creative kit.) You can also use the Creative Commons search tool, FIST (Free Image Search Tool for Wikipedia) and Instagram.
What are some ways I can get more visibility for my blog?
Try guest posting. Guest posting gives you an introduction to new readers, provides backlinks to your blog and it's a great addition to your blogging credentials in the blogging community. To get a guest post, research blogs that may be similar in content to your own. Introduce yourself to the blog owner via email and politely ask if they'd be interested in hosting you as a guest blogger. Make sure and provide your blog URL, the theme of your own blog and the topic you had in mind. Or you can be open and state that you'd be happy to write according to what their own theme may currently be. Bloggers are fairly protective of their blogs, so make sure you have something to offer when approaching a blogger. Have some great ideas handy.
Another way to gain visibility is to visit other blogs, frequently. I personally believe you should visit other blogs more than you visit your own to foster a community of blogging and relationship with other bloggers. Once you make your post for the day, make a list of blogs that you will visit each day or every other day or weekly. Whatever the frequency is, just be consistent.
How do I get more comments on my blog?
Simple. Ask. Don't publish your post without asking a question, asking for feedback or ask the readers for help with a current task or future post. Also, remember when I said, visit other blogs? Well, when you visit other blogs, leave a comment. Hopefully, they'll reciprocate.
How can I grow my blog?
One post at a time. If you get involved in the blogging community, you will learn something from other bloggers. You'll find out about new gadgets, informative blogs to visit, innovative blog designers, new books being released or you may find a post on how to fix a particular bug on your own blog that you've been trying to figure out since day one. But you must be active. Every time you leave a comment on a blog, you leave your calling card...basically your blogging profile for others to see or visit, which in turn leads them to your blog. So tell the world in a meaningful way who you are. They don't know you have a blog if they don't know you exist.
How do you keep your readers interested in what you write?
I don't know if I can answer this thoroughly, it's probably best suited as a question to my readers. But I would like to think it's a combination of being informative, personable and sorta funny on a good day. :-)
My advice to bloggers...be interesting. Be odd if necessary. But don't be mediocre. Offer your readers something. That something can be updates on current trends, news or reviews. It can be giveaways, contests or information about giveaways or contests on other blogs or websites. It can be funny joke to brighten their day, a picture that puts a smile on their face or even a rant about current trends or something that ticked you off that we can relate to on a daily basis.
How long should my blog post be?
However long it needs to be. But shorter is better every time. Readers come in a combination of skimmers, voyeurs and hungry word consumers. I'm a combination reader. I look around like a peeping tom and then I skim til I find something interesting and then I read the complete post if it keeps my attention. So the shorter the better. But whatever the length make every word count, so I would say one to two paragraphs. And don't forget to add some photos. Readers love visuals. We want to know how the photo relates to the post. It also helps readers decide if the post is something we are interested in reading in the first place. Think of it as a book cover.
Can you tell me where to go to get free photos for my blog posts?
Use your camera. Try Getty Images for royalty free photos, Picnik (Picnik will be free until April 19th. After April it will be taken over by Google Creative kit.) You can also use the Creative Commons search tool, FIST (Free Image Search Tool for Wikipedia) and Instagram.
What are some ways I can get more visibility for my blog?
Try guest posting. Guest posting gives you an introduction to new readers, provides backlinks to your blog and it's a great addition to your blogging credentials in the blogging community. To get a guest post, research blogs that may be similar in content to your own. Introduce yourself to the blog owner via email and politely ask if they'd be interested in hosting you as a guest blogger. Make sure and provide your blog URL, the theme of your own blog and the topic you had in mind. Or you can be open and state that you'd be happy to write according to what their own theme may currently be. Bloggers are fairly protective of their blogs, so make sure you have something to offer when approaching a blogger. Have some great ideas handy.
Another way to gain visibility is to visit other blogs, frequently. I personally believe you should visit other blogs more than you visit your own to foster a community of blogging and relationship with other bloggers. Once you make your post for the day, make a list of blogs that you will visit each day or every other day or weekly. Whatever the frequency is, just be consistent.
How do I get more comments on my blog?
Simple. Ask. Don't publish your post without asking a question, asking for feedback or ask the readers for help with a current task or future post. Also, remember when I said, visit other blogs? Well, when you visit other blogs, leave a comment. Hopefully, they'll reciprocate.
How can I grow my blog?
One post at a time. If you get involved in the blogging community, you will learn something from other bloggers. You'll find out about new gadgets, informative blogs to visit, innovative blog designers, new books being released or you may find a post on how to fix a particular bug on your own blog that you've been trying to figure out since day one. But you must be active. Every time you leave a comment on a blog, you leave your calling card...basically your blogging profile for others to see or visit, which in turn leads them to your blog. So tell the world in a meaningful way who you are. They don't know you have a blog if they don't know you exist.
Have questions or advice for other bloggers? Please share.
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Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Top 25 Blogs for Writers
Most of you know that I have a passion for writing and that I have a few books being released soon. But I wanted to share some of the resources I use as a writer, especially other blogs I frequently visit that are geared towards providing writing resources for creative minds. Hopefully it can be of use to an aspiring writer, author or blog reader. So here they are, my top 25 blogs for writers. Plus, two bonus blogs I just had to squeeze in there. They are listed in no particular order.
- Allison Winn Scotch (formerly known as Ask Allison, site provides publishing and marketing info)
- Apostrophe Abuse (teaches the correct way to use an apostrophe)
- A Writer's Life (from the writer who created the books, the TV show Monk was based on)
- The Beacon Blog for Writers (resource for writers to help them get published)
- Cat's Eye Writer (for bloggers who write and writers who blog)
- The Creative Penn (provides resources for writers to write, publish and sell their books)
- Evil Editor (provides tips on defining your craft with better editing skills)
- Flogging the Quill (how to pursue the art and craft of compelling storytelling)
- Grammarphobia (readers ask grammar questions and get responses)
- John Baker's Blog (an author blog, has some great resources on writing)
- Kim's Craft Blog (tips about constraints and creativity, including memoirs, fiction & creative writing)
- Make a Living Writing (shows writers how to make a good living with their writing)
- Paperback Writer (writer of forty-five novels in eight genres, she talks about writing and her life)
- The Plotmonkeys (several bloggers talking about books and their lives)
- Scott Berkun (bestselling author and public speaker, share writing techniques for creative thinking)
- Six Sentences (write in six sentence exercise, and you can submit your own)
- Storyfix (tips to get serious about writing and writing stories that attract readers)
- Time to Write (inspiration, ideas and tips for aspiring writers, writers and creative people)
- Wordplay (provides resources to help aspiring writers become authors)
- Wordswimmer (insights into understanding the writing process)
- Write Anything (inspiration, motivation and writing challenges)
- Write Better (tips on communication, business writing and creative writing)
- Writer Beware (a publishing industry watchdog that helps writers avoid scams, pitfalls and schemes)
- Write to Done (effective ways to write better)
- Writers Write (resources about writing, books and publishing)
- Writer Unboxed (blog that dissects books and finds out what makes them great from a writer's view)
- Emerging Writers Network (info on how to work towards succeeding in writing
Do you visit any of the blogs on the list?
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Monday, March 28, 2011
Interview with T.K. Thorne, author of Noah's Wife
I had the honor of meeting Ms. Teresa at the Alabama Conclave Writers Conference and she was one of the first people to greet and welcome me. Right then, I knew she had a generous and caring heart. So I wanted Ms. Thorne to be my first author interview for fiction. Her work is unique and in a category by itself. The depth and richness she gives to her work is in abundance and you can tell she has taken great care with her characters to make them believable.
Mrs. Thorne was so kind to answer a few questions regarding her novel and her writing. She has donated a free autographed copy of her book to one lucky person who comments on my blog in the comments sections at the end of the interview. Just tell us what you thought of the interview and you will be entered into the drawing. It's as simply as that. The contest drawing ends in 3 days, so good luck and please share the link and spread the word. I hope you enjoy the interview and we wish Mrs. Thorne the best in her future endeavors.
From Book Jacket:
Noah’s Wife is Na’amah, a beautiful young girl with Asperger Syndrome who wishes only to be a shepherdess on her beloved hills in ancient Turkey, a desire shattered by the hatred of her powerful brother, the love of two men, and a looming disaster that threatens her world. Na’amah tells her story and sees the world through the unique lens of a condition known today as Asperger's Syndrome. Her savant abilities and penchant to speak truth forces her down a dangerous path in an age of change--a time of challenge to the goddess' ancient ways, when cultures clash and the earth itself is unstable. When foreign raiders kidnap Na’amah, her journey to escape and return home becomes an attempt to save her people from the disaster only she knows is coming.
The Biblical account of Noah's wife only gives us a nameless woman who bears Noah's children and is with him in the ark. T.K. Thorne, an award winning author, has filled in the story with her imagination based on geological and archaeological evidence of a great flood in the Black Sea region 7,000 years ago.
1. Where did the inspiration for "Noah's Wife" come from?
I was looking for a topic and thought Sena Jeter Nashlund’s Ahab’s Wife was such a great idea—a story from the perspective of an unknown person about a really famous one. I recently had a chance to speak with Ms. Nashlund and confessed I stole her concept. She was very gracious and pleased that it worked for me. (Isn’t it wonderful when writers help other writers?)
So with that idea in mind, I sat up straight when I heard a local poet, Irene Latham, read her poem, “Noah’s Wife.” She prefaced the reading by telling us that in the Bible story of the flood, Noah’s wife is only very briefly mentioned and not even given a name. That was an exciting moment (Can’t get more famous than Noah!) and I started researching a possible historical basis for the flood. The clincher was discovering the geological and archaeological evidence about a great flood in the Middle East around 5500 BCE. That gave me a date to work with and I began to play with the idea. It took four years to write and research.
2. What genre would you classify your novel?
Primarily Noah’s Wife is an “alternative” story (It is fiction set in a historical context, and it is mostly generated from my imagination.) That said, I tried to use all the Biblical names and follow the story from this angle: What do I think might have really happened in that time/place without the overlay of moral/religious redacting that could have resulted in the story we have now? It won ForeWord Review’s “Book of the Year” (2009) for Historical Fiction, so I feel pretty comfortable with that genre classification, although it has romantic elements, as well as adventure …and could fall into a literary genre too!
3. What would you like readers to get out of reading Noah's Wife?
I would primarily hope they, like me, would fall in love with the characters and feel as if they were transported back in time with them. I’ve had many people tell me that the story they grew up with is now so much more real to them. Like all good stories, there are multiple layers. One of the most interesting aspects to me was learning about the historical roots of the divine feminine from which our patriarchal religious heritage grew. Another layer is that my character, Na’amah, has a form of autism we (now) term “Asperger’s.” I would love for my book to help open some understanding of people with that syndrome.
4. When did you begin writing?
My grandmother read to me when I was young and I learned to love books. I wrote my first story at age ten…or at least part of a story. It was about a girl who got lost in a forest looking for a magical fox. I read it aloud to my parents. My mother did the “encouraging parent thing” and praised me mightily. My father said, “Where’s the end?” From that day on, I always put an ending on my stories!
My plans to be an astronaut didn’t pan out, so I had adventures by writing about them. Then, on the way to becoming a social worker, I accidentally became a police officer. (Too long a story for here.) That has been a rich source of experiences for me, and many find their way into my stories, including perspectives on human nature I might not have had growing up as a sheltered southern girl.
5. What is your writing process like? (Do you have a set time that you sit down and write or just write when the urge comes)
Because I have a full time job, I am mostly a weekend-warrior writer. But the actual typing of the words is only part of the process. When I am working on a project, I am thinking about it constantly—in the car on the way to work and back, while I am loading the dishwasher, or even in the shower. I have to let my imagination go and put my characters in a situation, listen to what they have to say or do about it, work out the plot, etc. and then when I do sit down to write, it goes pretty quickly. It’s when I haven’t done all the pre-work that sometimes I do the stare- at-the-white- page thing.
6. What are you currently working on and what can we expect from you in the future?
My work-in-progress is Angels at the Gate. Like Noah’s Wife, it’s an alternative story, this one of Lot’s Wife. (Yep, she's the one who turns into a "pillar of salt" looking back at Sodom.) I know, it sounds like I have a grand plan to write novels based on little-known women of the Bible, but here's how it happened: One of the guys I work with (and tends toward the sarcastic) out of nowhere one day, cut his eyes sideways at me, and said, "Noah's wife, eh? What's next, Lot's wife?" My first reaction: No way! Sodom and Gomorrah? Too dark. But, as the days passed, I found myself thinking about how I would do it, until I just sat down and wrote the first sentence—
"If the path of obedience is the path of wisdom, it is one not well-worn by my feet. I am Yildeth, daughter of the caravan, daughter of the wind, and daughter of the famed merchant, Zakiti. That I am his daughter, not his son, is a secret between myself and my father. This is a fine arrangement, as I prefer the freedoms of being a boy."
And then one word kept following the next!
7. What advice would you give to aspiring writers?
The only way to ensure failure is to quit trying. Rejection is hard, but you have to endure a great deal of it. If you are like me, each time will hurt, but pick yourself up out of that hole and start typing. Oh, and always put an ending on your stories!
Thank you Mrs. Thorne for taking the time to do the interview.
Please visit Mrs. Thorne at her website or click the amazon picture below to purchase her book. Thank you.
Blogging at www.tkthorne.wordpress.com
Free Book Giveway of "Noah's Wife" ends March 30, 2011, midnight. One winner randomly selected by random.org
Free Book Giveway of "Noah's Wife" ends March 30, 2011, midnight. One winner randomly selected by random.org
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